Hi everyone.
I know the world is a bit upside down at the moment, but I think it’s important to keep our sanity. Staying in the house all day is great for quarantine, but it’s also a great time to connect when you’re single.
I decided to create a blog to talk about ideas for dating, relationships and interaction while in quarantine. But, it’s also about working on yourself, so that once this is all over, you can be the best version of yourself that you can truly be. Once we do the inner work, we can be ready to find love.
QUARANTINE? DOES THIS MEAN I'M STUCK ALONE?!
Alright, so we’re now officially in Quarantine, and for a lot of people we’re bored as hell. Being in Quarantine definitely gives us time to reflect on our lives and what we want. And, I know for many singles it makes us realize having a partner could be an amazing thing! But, here’s the thing.
In order to truly find love you have to be 100% happy being by yourself.
This time of isolation really allows us to take a step back from the chaotic day to day that keeps our minds constantly distracted. So, instead of being buried in work or surfing through endless content, it's a good time to look around you and reassess your current environment.
5 ACTIVITIES TO MAKE QUARANTINE BEARABLE
Here's my advice for this quarantine whether you’re single or not. These 5 things might just help you get through this without going stir crazy:
1. Get away from crowds and out in nature with daily walks!
2. Read a good book you've been meaning to open.
3. Catch up on a series you've always wanted to watch.
4. Write that novel, pick up that paintbrush or try that elusive hobby.
5. Most importantly, try to relax and avoid stressing about the small stuff.
If you are single, and realizing you’d really like to be in a relationship now is a great time to try online dating. You finally may have the time to really commit to genuine connection with another person. As a matchmaker, my clients have newfound freedom that allows them the time to really engage in meaningful conversations, even if it is remotely.
The truth is, everyone deals with stress differently and many people simple aren't in the headspace to meet someone new. Those who are taking this time to really pull away from truly are and I think it’s perfect timing to get to know someone. And, here’s the thing if you’re not in a headspace to date right now with everything that’s going on, that’s perfectly okay. Give yourself the time you need, the last thing you want to do is start a new relationship when you’re in a fearful mindset.
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If you are ready to date, here’s what’s great, is you can meet someone and really get to know them by talking on the phone and Facetiming without the pressure of sex. You can get creative with your facetime dates. While we still have delivery you could get a coffee dropped off through postmates for a coffee date. And, as of right now flowers are still being delivered so chivalry doesn’t have to die. Truthfully guys, you can actually save a lot of money with this dating process, so courting gestures like flowers or gift cards for someone you have a special connection with are more than appropriate and perfectly extra.
And, here’s the thing... you may make some connections during this time that don’t last, but often these relationships can evolve into a great friendship. The best part is together, you can help each other get through this weird, difficult time.
As for meeting during quarantine, it has to be something you’re BOTH 100% comfortable with. I’d recommend talking on the phone and doing a video chat first. That way you can tell if there is any chemistry. And (if you’ve been following the recommended guidelines for self-isolation) right now you know that restaurants and coffee shops are out, so if you do want to meet, you'll have to get a little creative. Meeting for a walk or hike could be a great thing. It gets you out of the house and in nature, and exercising is definitely a plus. Then once guys get to know each other and hit it off you can have dinner dates with take-out or cooking food. But, I’d would say just be incredibly safe and listen to your doctors' recommendations on this!
I hope this was helpful! I decided to publish this blog every Monday. So, please make sure to check it out. Next week, I’m going to offer some manifesting tips on how to attract the love of your life while you’re bored in quarantine. Stay safe and don’t forget to follow me on Instagram @MyFaeryMatchmaker.
Remember, Quarantine doesn’t have to be bummer. It's all about perspective. It can be a time to spiritually grow and prepare you to meet the love of your life.
With Love,
Jacqueline
PS. - If you've ever thought about working with a matchmaker or getting some help breaking through your biggest relationship blocks, don't hesitate to reach out to me via email or social media!