We've probably all heard this at one point or another, "thoughts become things." The idea is simple; if we think mean thoughts within a negative framework, we are only manifesting negative things. So, on the other hand we choose to inspire ourselves and think in terms of positive thoughts. Constantly reinforcing the thought that you'll be a failure forever and will never amount to anything will not get you where you want to go in life.
FLIP THE SCRIPT
When we truly believe in ourselves we can manifest awesome amazing things into our lives. No matter what we've done in our lives, what mistakes we've made, we are still phenomenal beings!!! And, we can still do amazing things. We truly need to value ourselves and our self-worth.
RAISE THE ROOF AND YOUR FRIENDS 
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The same goes for others and I definitely do this with my clients. You want to lift others up and get them to believe in themselves as well. It's so easy to make people feel good with a simple meaningful compliment and making others feel good has been scientifically proven to make you feel good as well. So many people devalue themselves and are plagued by low self-esteem, but if you believe in them, it just might help them begin to truly believe in themselves.
I like to tell people the way I intuitively see them in the future. By tapping into the energy of the best possible outcome, I am able to see them achieving their desired successes. I've found that sharing these authentic, and high vibration visions of success or being in a happy relationship with my clients, they begin to see themselves in that light as well and align with it.
DON'T BE AFRAID TO CUT CORDS
We all have what it takes to be great! At the end of the day, we just need to believe and surround ourselves with people around us to truly believe. The most successful relationships I've been able to witness only exist because the two people truly admire and believe in each other. When one person cuts the other one down or acts better than their partner their relationship is bound for failure. We are all mirror images of each other so it's important to believe in ourselves and others as well.